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“Thanks, But No Thanks: What Rejection Can Still Teach Us”.
There’s a particular sting that comes with professional rejection. Not the big dramatic kind, but the slow, creeping kind. The polite email, the generic phrasing, or the worst of all… silence. Over recent months, I’ve had a few of those moments. Some courteous, some vague, and some so quiet I wondered if my messages had been sent by carrier pigeon. And judging by the number of posts from educators and leaders on LinkedIn recently, I’m far from alone. Rejection is something we
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Nov 174 min read


The Myth of the Strong-but-Silent Leader
Why those 3am thoughts don’t make you weak; they make you human We joke about them, but we all know they’re real. The 3am thoughts. The...
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Sep 113 min read


The Fine Illusion: How Hiding Your Humanity Hurts Your Leadership
Content Warning: This blog contains a personal story involving significant medical pain and hospitalisation. We’ve all been there. The...
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Aug 223 min read


The Year That Wasn’t What You’d Planned — And Why That’s O.K.
Leadership doesn’t always go to plan — but that doesn’t mean you haven’t grown. I remember the year I was convinced I’d finally crack...
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May 193 min read


The Final Stretch: Leading with Purpose, Not Pressure.
As we enter the final third of the academic year, school leaders everywhere are shifting into high gear. Whether you work in mainstream...
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Apr 172 min read


Culture Shock: Why Leaders from Marginalised Backgrounds Face an Uphill Battle in Changing workplace Culture.
And how to make the process less lonely You’ve stepped into leadership—congratulations! But within days (maybe even hours), you’re hit...
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Mar 113 min read


The Leadership Balancing Act: Supporting Staff Without Burning Out
As a leader, you’re expected to support your team, ensure high performance, and create a positive working environment. But how do you do...
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Feb 105 min read


From Silos to Synergy: Creating a Collaborative Team Culture
One of the biggest challenges for new leaders is shifting a team from working in isolation to truly collaborating. A lack of teamwork can...
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Feb 32 min read


The Power of Feedback in Building Positive Relationships
Effective Feedback That Motivates Feedback is one of the most powerful tools a leader has, yet it’s also one of the most underutilised or...
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Jan 272 min read


Building Trust and Rapport: The Foundation of Positive Staff Relationships
Picture this: a newly formed team, a blank slate of a school, and a vision to create something extraordinary. That was my reality during...
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Jan 204 min read


More Than a Punchline: Why Menopause Deserves Respect
Growing up, most of learned about puberty and menstruation in school. It was presented as a biological milestone—unavoidable, universal,...
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Jan 134 min read


Staff Well-being: The Forgotten Festive Priority
Supporting Your Team To Avoid End-of-Term Burnout The irony never escaped me. While the rest of the UK was locked in the annual debate...
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Dec 12, 20243 min read


Belonging Beyond Tinsel"
Celebrating Diversity in Schools During the Festive Season. Christmas celebrations often dominate the end-of-term festivities, but this...
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Dec 10, 20244 min read


Santa Isn’t Coming… And That’s Okay
How Schools Can Make Gift-Related Activities Inclusive The festive season often brings a focus on gifts—what’s under the tree, what Santa...
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Dec 9, 20243 min read


Not-So-Jolly Holidays
How to Support Children Struggling During the Festive Season. For many children, the festive season isn’t full of joy and magic. The...
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Dec 9, 20243 min read


Speak Well, Lead Well: How Positive Communication Builds a Thriving School Culture
Creating connection, resilience, and inclusion—one conversation at a time. When I think back to my time as a head teacher, there is a...
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Dec 2, 20244 min read


Talk Less, Lead More: Effective Communication Strategies for School Leaders
Managing stress, balancing needs, and fostering healthy team dynamics during the busiest time of the year As the end of term approaches,...
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Nov 25, 20243 min read


The Lost Art of Talking: Rebuilding Communication Skills in Young People
Practical ways to help students find their voices again—and why it matters more than ever In recent years, schools have faced a growing...
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Nov 18, 20243 min read


More Than Words: Why Communication Skills Matter in Schools
Incorporating school values into everyday conversations to build a supportive, inclusive school culture In the busy world of schools,...
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Nov 11, 20244 min read


An Open Letter to School Leaders Who Worry About Not Being ‘Inclusive Enough’
I've been rather quiet on my website over the last 31 days, due to a project I undertook for Black History Month called 'Beyond Martin,...
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Nov 1, 20243 min read
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